Finding Easy way
If a person experienced many failures then think about his confidence level. Compare his energy level now to when he started then you will find a major difference. His mindset will be weak, instead of finding the answer, he will question his abilities now. But this is not the dark side of him and it is not wrong to think like this. Yes, he fell without knowing ups and downs but now he knows everything about that path. This experience made him firm and now he learned how to think and analyze the situation. This is a great lesson to stand up from failures. But in this stage, one of the obstacles for our growth will be our narrow thinking.
Our thinking may be broad as a beginner but it was without focus. As an experienced one, our thinking should even broader with laser focus intensity. But the negative part of this is when we experience something based on that we close our possibilities to think differently. Don’t make your experience an obstacle to your success. Many times it is easy to win but our past experiences open us to a difficult path. Work of ax will never be done by nail cutter and work of nail cutter will never be done by ax either. We have to choose our tools wisely before working on something. Our 50% victory depends on our tool that is how we think solutions for our problems.
When I was learning table tennis, as a beginner I don’t even know how to play it. I was giving my attention towards the ball by holding my hands tight but every time I failed to hit that ball.
My friend observed this and he said, “Make your body free and play with a calm mind, then you will automatically understand the game”.
Yes, it was true. Sometimes our minds will be filled with complex thoughts but even we still try to go with that. It is better to take big decisions with a calm mind. Don’t make yourself stressed in any situation and it will decrease your confidence. Even in tough times believe in yourself and believe in your abilities. Tell yourself always, “I can do this” surely it will open you for an easy path to do that. A good player will never make his game difficult; rather he finds every chance to make it as easy as possible.
My First EBook
Hi guys, if you have time then please check out my new eBook. This short eBook focuses on teenagers and this is the age of so much confusion in our mind. So this book will help to open the right way for teens and motivate them to work on their dreams. Please share this with your loved ones.
If you find it interesting then click here this link below or image of the book to read it in Amazon kindle.
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